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    It takes time. You will learn. Have you heard these wise words before? Why is it, that some people in  the gay community feel they are superior?  If you are 10-20 years older than me, I give you credit. If you have  some thoughts for me and my gayness, please tell! 
 
             When I first came out, I was often called names such as baby, newbie, and immature. This was a tad discouraging since I spent about 19 years of my life in denial. They say , "the closet is now open", I was for sure  ready to lock the door and never come out. I always had a thing for dating women who were a few years older.  The difference? Well, a woman who was out longer didn't care about society. A woman who was new sometimes  did. It is a state of mind that matters ; not a birth date. I didn't want to end up in a relationship where I had to hide  my sexuality. After all, if I am going to be out of that closet, I am not changing for anyone.

There's something that ever fag needs, that's a lesbian to tell us like it is.  Here ya go!  Introducing, In the Sack with Laura Sacks.  Email us at info@gaysocialites.com to ask Laura for advice!

Dear Laura:  My best friend is dating my ex boyfriend, we have a cardinal rule to dating exes, but he chose to break that rule and date him anyway. I have had sex with my ex since he has been dating my best friend, should I tell my best friend? - Shane, Los Angeles CA

Shane, your friend has already broken that so called "cardinal rule". Friends should always come first and since he chose to date an ex of yours against your will, hes not respecting your wishes. "Bro's before Ho's" baby. He has absolutley no consideration for your feelings. You don't even owe him the time of day. You should always protect your friends but only if they are going to equally protect you back. I don't think your friend has your back, just the backsides of your exes.