Tighten your tie
Androgynous:
having both masculine and feminine characteristics. |
having an ambiguous sexual identity. |
neither clearly masculine nor clearly feminine in appearance. |
Tighten your tie. Close that suit jacket, slick back your hair. Years ago, that statement would of been directed to a man. But in the year 2007 androgyny plays a bigger part then you know. Gender is not what it used to be. We are not all male or female. We are often one with the like to act like the other.
Men and women have been androgynous for generations. In the 1930's Marlene Dietrich acted in a film by the name of Morocco (directed by Josef von Sternberg). In the film, Dietrich kisses a girl after giving her a flower. A scene the creators wanted cut, but Dietrich fought for it to stay.
The entertainment industry is clearly aware that controversy sells. R&B artist Ciara sports a suit and tie in her latest video for "Like A Boy " . The video is about a girl who likes to act like a boy. An attempt to give society a taste of the inequality women deal with daily. Ciara states that if a woman could play man for a day, we wouldn't have to work so hard each day.
We are all born a particular sex. It is a boy/girl. We are born gay, we are born straight. We are born transgendered, and bisexual just like we are born african american or white. If you choose to have a girlie day or a tomboy day feel free. It is your life. Never feel bad about wearing a tie if your a girl or a dress if you are a boy. Being average and so called "Normal" is boring. It is difference that adds the spunk to life. I want to wake up every day and open my eyes to new and exciting things. If you dislike difference, feel free to close your eyes.